Everyone had or facing Ethical dilemma in their lives in many ways. I also had an unforgettable ethical incident that I am going to share. This incident happened with me in early days when I came to Canada. I was coming from my work and it was raining on that day it was too hard for me to wait for a bus on bus stop in bad weather. I was waiting for bus and bus came. I sat in the bus and I kept my phone on the seat of bus to close my umbrella. and i took a relief. Also, I was talking with my husband with Bluetooth earphones. I drop off from the bus and I was talking with my husband he was not replying me. Then I thought call is disconnected. I was going to check that really call is disconnected or not. When I put my hand in my pocket my phone was not in my pocket then I realized that I lost my phone. After that, i went to bus stop again but bus was not there. I came to my home and no one was at home. I was crying when I realized that i do not have any contact number of my family to inform them. Also, I was new here. After that, I want to my friend and took her phone and called to my husband that was the only number that I remember. I told him everything what happened with me. He said do not worry, everything will be fine.

I tried many things to find my phone like I contacted with customer care of sim card and bank to deactivate my cards and also I called the police and informed them about my phone. On that time I was not able to buy a new one. But my friend helped me and gave her old phone for some days. After some days, some one was using my social media apps and WhatsApp as well. My mother told me that some one is online on your WhatsApp number then I text to that person but he was not answering. He was a drugi who got my phone. On the Christmas Eve, he answered my call and said okay! give me 100 bucks and take your phone back.

In the next morning, I met him in a café and gave him 100 bucks for my own phone. He clicked many pictures of things in my phone like phones, bikes and car tires etc. He was doing trade in stolen things. Finally I got my phone back. But, the thing is he read my all messages that I am new here, it is not easy for me to get new one. He did not understand that what I feel in those days. So, here I face a dilemma between humanity and honesty. I saw money had overcome the humanity. One more thing that my friend helped me when I really needed. So, it was a face of true friendship.